Don't Panic When The Bore Was Not According To Plan
Don't Panic When The Bore Was Not According To Plan - Experiencing an unexpected or unplanned pregnancy is indeed not easy. However, you can still choose to welcome the Little One's presence happily and make a new life plan.
Don't worry; you are not alone. Many couples have offspring, even if they don't plan a pregnancy. Before menopause, you can still get pregnant even after using contraception. Contraception does have a sufficient level of 80-90% preventing pregnancy. However, if it's not handled correctly, for example, because you forget to take birth control pills, of course, the chances of getting pregnant will be higher.
Steps You Need to DoAn unplanned pregnancy can occur at any time. It can be when you start going back to work from maternity leave, when your two children are teenagers, or even when you are having sexual intercourse for the first time.
Even though your pregnancy comes suddenly, actually you still have time to prepare yourself. The most important thing is to prepare mentally and arrange a new plan according to the schedule of the Little One's presence. The guide below might help:
Be honest about what you feel
Believe in yourself
Don't think too many about other people's feelings
Imagine a new life with the Little One.
Ask for help if you feel the need.
Learn how to take care of children at a close age
Whether planned or not, each pregnancy will bring various changes. However, remember, the Little One will need a healthy and happy mother. So, don't forget to maintain your health, both physically and mentally. Focusing on positive things can help you through unpleasant times. Congratulations on preparing your Little One's presence!